Stay Positive

Staying positive isn't as easy as you may wish. 

That Gulf of Mexico disaster is a good example; take some of those fishermen. 

They aren't sitting on their duffs. They are meeting with their peers and area officials to devise immediate answers to a long-ranging, BIG problem. 

They are taking precautions to secure their livlihoods where ever they can. 

Not to say that all affected by "The Gulf of Texico," as some are calling it, have ability to do much, now, in the thick of it. Sorry, Texaco fans, it just rhymes. 

Look at the families and friends of the 11 souls that were killed. Do you think they see ANYthing positive? No; I don't. 

So, how do they get beyond the shock and dire sadness at hand?

Time heals most wounds - eventually. But, what about NOW? How are they supposed to sleep and take nourishment when their bodies / entire systems are in turmoil?

One moment at a time; one day at a time is too much to handle. 

You look for diversions: People to talk with, things that make you laugh, going out of your house - for a walk, a cup of tea, a movie. 

Help yourself get out of your mind, not go out of your mind! Maybe it's not the best time for scrapbooks and memories. They will be there for you later, when you are strong again. 

What do you do when you need to stay positive in the midst of calamity?